Do this:
Use 1964, then get Evoodoo and Glide64 0.253
Extract Glide64 into your plugins folder, and put Evoodoo 1 folder above it (ie 1964/plugins = Glide64 1964 = Evoodoo)
Any sound plugin
Any control plugin
The game should work fine. The reason I recommend Glide64 + Evoodoo, is I seem to remember you are using 8mb integrated graphics for some reason? If that is the case then Glide64 + Evoodoo really are the best combination you can hope for.