I reckon, based on experiences of other board members and my own experience using two different cards, something like this:
Rice's Daedalus
+Works best with any GeForce MX cards
Jabo's
+Works best with any above spec. card
Glide64
+Works best with Voodoos, or any card with eVoodoo
TR64 OpenGL
+Works great with any Radeon cards and powerful GeForces
glN64()
+Works great with powerful Radeons and GeForces
Requirements [least to most demanding] estimates:
Glide64 (with a Voodoo) > Jabo's > Rice's Daedalus > Glide64 + eVoodoo >TR64 OpenGL > glN64()
Note: Game compatibility varies from plugin to plugin so you can't really use just one plugin like you can with PSX emulation.