The other plugins besides Jabo's that work with PD are glN64(), TR64 OpenGL and Rice's Daedalus. They are all slow compared to Jabo's plugin (which plays the game excellently).
Personally I'd try and get Jabo's to work- I can see no reason why it wouldn't. Just install some decent drivers for your card and it'll work. (eg the 30.82 detonators for the GeForceMX)
And use 1964, as PJ64 will run the game very slowly (only just over 50/50 on my 1800+ comp let alone a comp at just 566MHz) That'll boost the speed right up.
Glide64 doesn't work with most Rare games yet...