Problem help

Ok I open my PJ 64 I run the ROM that I want to, it loads, says emulation started, it pauses for a couple seconds then I get the microsoft message Send or Dont send.

I have direct x10 and Im using RiceVideo plugin and the plugins you get when you download PJ64

Comp Specs :

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System Information
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Time of this report: 9/14/2008, 14:11:53
Machine name: YOUR-ZE8CXVR8TT
Operating System: Windows XP Home Edition (5.1, Build 2600) Service Pack 3 (2600.xpsp.080413-2111)
Language: English (Regional Setting: English)
System Manufacturer: HP Pavilion 04
System Model: P5266A-ABA 7915
BIOS: Version 3.07
Processor: Intel Celeron, ~1.1GHz
Memory: 254MB RAM
Page File: 383MB used, 241MB available
Windows Dir: C:\WINDOWS
DirectX Version: DirectX 9.0c (4.09.0000.0904)
DX Setup Parameters: Not found
DxDiag Version: 5.03.2600.5512 32bit Unicode

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DxDiag Notes
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DirectX Files Tab: No problems found.
Display Tab 1: No problems found.
Sound Tab 1: No problems found.
Music Tab: No problems found.
Input Tab: No problems found.
Network Tab: No problems found.

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DirectX Debug Levels
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Direct3D: 0/4 (n/a)
DirectDraw: 0/4 (retail)
DirectInput: 0/5 (n/a)
DirectMusic: 0/5 (n/a)
DirectPlay: 0/9 (retail)
DirectSound: 0/5 (retail)
DirectShow: 0/6 (retail)

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Display Devices
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Card name: Intel(R) 82810 Graphics Controller (Microsoft Corporation)
Manufacturer: Intel Corporation
Chip type: Intel(R) 82810
DAC type: Internal
Device Key: Enum\PCI\VEN_8086&DEV_7121&SUBSYS_71218086&REV_03
Display Memory: 32.0 MB
Current Mode: 1024 x 768 (24 bit) (60Hz)
Monitor: hp pavilion mx50
Monitor Max Res: 1024,768
Driver Name: i81xdnt5.dll
Driver Version: 6.13.0001.3198 (English)
DDI Version: 8
Driver Attributes: Final Retail
Driver Date/Size: 4/13/2008 20:11:54, 702845 bytes
WHQL Logo'd: Yes
WHQL Date Stamp: n/a
VDD: n/a
Mini VDD: i81xnt5.sys
Mini VDD Date: 8/4/2004 01:29:36, 161020 bytes
Device Identifier: {D7B78E66-3261-11CF-48EF-2051A1C2CB35}
Vendor ID: 0x8086
Device ID: 0x7121
SubSys ID: 0x71218086
Revision ID: 0x0003
Revision ID: 0x0003
Video Accel: ModeMPEG2_A ModeMPEG2_B ModeMPEG2_C ModeMPEG2_D
Deinterlace Caps: n/a
Registry: OK
DDraw Status: Enabled
D3D Status: Enabled
AGP Status: Enabled
DDraw Test Result: Not run
D3D7 Test Result: Not run
D3D8 Test Result: Not run
D3D9 Test Result: Not run

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Sound Devices
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Description: Intel(r) Integrated Audio
Default Sound Playback: Yes
Default Voice Playback: Yes
Hardware ID: PCI\VEN_8086&DEV_2415&SUBSYS_56438086&REV_02
Manufacturer ID: 1
Product ID: 100
Type: WDM
Driver Name: ac97intc.sys
Driver Version: 5.10.0000.3523 (English)
Driver Attributes: Final Retail
WHQL Logo'd: Yes
Date and Size: 8/17/2001 15:20:04, 96256 bytes
Other Files:
Driver Provider: Microsoft
HW Accel Level: Full
Cap Flags: 0xB5B
Min/Max Sample Rate: 8000, 48000
Static/Strm HW Mix Bufs: 1, 0
Static/Strm HW 3D Bufs: 0, 0
HW Memory: 0
Voice Management: No
EAX(tm) 2.0 Listen/Src: No, No
I3DL2(tm) Listen/Src: No, No
Sensaura(tm) ZoomFX(tm): No
Registry: OK
Sound Test Result: Not run

Ok, I updated my Intel driver and when I click Jabo's Direct3D6 video plugin I get the message:
"Direct3D failed to initialize your HAL device make sure you have a properly configured 3D graphics card compatible with Direct3D 6.0."
Then another message pops up saying
"The default or selected video plugin is missing or invalid."
"Check that you have at least one compatible plugin file in your plugin folder."

Alright, I fixed all that now and now when I run the game Conkers Bad Fur Day, it goes REALLY slow along with the sound, and some of the colors are messed up such as his fur is white when it is supposed to be orange. The flames from candles are little black boxes instead of flames. Also, the framerate is usually 40-50 fps.

Alright, thanks for the help.